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Un-Plugging from Matrix

{ 03:14, 2008-May-1 } { 0 comments } { Link }

Those of us like me who had no clue how women work before learning the ‘Game’, we lived in ‘the Matrix.’

Everyone I know who has the pick up skill set has had that one moment where they finally un-plug.

For me it happened about a year ago in Las Vegas, at a pick-up super-conference, a room full of 200 guys learning about socializing and about 10 of us teaching it.

We went out at night to coach guys ‘in the field’ – this is game speak for out in a bar or club.

At one point I was sitting on a couch and had a student sitting next to me on my right. There was a girl sitting on my left with a guy holding her hand. The student wanted to see how to talk to a girl who is obviously with a romantic interest.

I turn towards her and just start talking – busting on her such that the boyfriend thinks I’m not interested in her:

“You are soo like my little sister … you were the ‘me, me, me’ girl in grade-school, weren’t you … Oh! Oh! Party Girl!”

The interaction goes well and the boyfriend just sort of sits there still holding her hand while I game her. I escalate towards a kiss.

“On a scale of 1 to 10, how good of a kisser are you?”

She says “10!” so I say, “You are a TOTAL weirdo!” and I lean in and kiss her.

We kiss for 10 seconds.

And she is still holding her boyfriends hand.

You already know why she does this if you read my other blogs. You know it is not her fault. Her boyfriend is obviously not someone she wants to be with. She is operating on autopilot.

But inside my head I lost cabin pressure for a bit.

I felt like Neo when he got flushed out of the Matrix and into reality.

Over time I realized just how much my entire outlook had changed. These were pretty ego smashing self realizations like:

-I was the cause of all of my past failed relationships.
-Some of my ex-gfs from my AFC (“Average Frustrated Chump”) days definitely cheated on me and I never knew.
-The thing that prevented my success with women for 20 years had zero to do with them and everything to do with me.
-For 20 years I always held a false belief that women didn’t like me because of my looks.

As a man, once you do this for long enough you realize that whatever reality you were living in before – was somewhat or completely disconnected from the truth. That false reality we call in the Game – ‘the Matrix.’ (credit Tyler Durden). I was living a lie and it was all purely in my head.

The moral of this story is that if you are going to unplug you will have to let go of your ego. To achieve true success with women, you have to realize that the Matrix is where you live now, and you must take the Red Pill to escape. Then, and only then will you truly be free. Unplug.
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